30 Dec
Going against the current, Jordanian singles celebrate Valentine’s Day
While people across the Kingdom bought flowers, exchanged love letters and went out to restaurants to celebrate Valentine’s Day last weekend, a group of Jordanians had a different take on the occasion.
One day after breaking up with his girlfriend, one 19-year-old Jordanian spent the eve of tiffany jewellery Valentine’s Day dancing at a cafe.
The bachelor was one of more than 300 singles attending an “Anti-Valentine’s” party, which organisers said targeted “lonely singles” in the Kingdom at a time when most other establishments restrict entry to couples.
“We ended our relationship yesterday due to certain issues, so I came to this party tonight alone,” he told The Jordan Times, requesting to remain unnamed.
The young man added that although he enjoys being single he wanted to celebrate the holiday.
Not being in a relationship is no reason to shun Valentine’s Day, according to party organiser DJ Flava.
“This party is for singles so they don’t feel lonely on the Valentine’s Day,” he told The Jordan Times silver cufflinks, adding that “all parties on this day are usually designated for couples only,” excluding those who are without a date.
Flava explained that the dance party aimed to celebrate singlehood, hosting black balloons instead of the traditional red ones, in a sign of an anti-Valentine sentiment.
“I don’t celebrate for the sake of Valentine, I celebrate for myself,” said Leen, a 19-year-old party goer.
Also on Friday, youth at the Saint John De La Salle School in Jabal Hussein hosted a silver money clips Valentine’s Day party without restricting entry to couples, an event the organiser said was for all people, regardless of relationship status.
Valentine’s Day is celebrated across the world on February 14.
Although stories vary, some legends state the holiday dates back to the reign of third century Roman Emperor Claudius II who banned marriage for young men as he thought celibacy would make his forces better soldiers.
Despite the ban, Christian preacher Valentine continued to facilitate marriages between young men and women, and was later arrested and executed by the Roman emperor.
Before being executed, one version of the story claims that Saint Valentine passed a letter to a woman he was in love with, the world’s first valentine.
